A year ago I was diagnosed with Avoidant Personality Disorder (avoidants are hurt by criticism or diapproval, have no close friends, are reluctant to become involved with people, avoid activities that involve interpersonal contact) and had become almost entirely isolated. Through a great counselor I was able to start to work my way out of it. I bought my first whistle and began to learn to play and to hit this website regularly. I never believed I would play in front of anybody else (even family), let alone in public. I just played because I loved the sound. But due to the friendship of many on this board (some of whom I have gotten to know in person) I have been encouraged to do more. Everyone I have talked to has been positive and upbeat. My family can’t believe the difference in me and my son recently told me that starting to play the whistle and get involved with these activities/people has been the best thing that could have ever happened. I agree. I feel like an entirely different person. I can actually play in public now (only with others; a solo is far away, but that’s okay).
I just want to say thanks to all of you for answering questions, being friendly and nonjudgmental, and always encouraging everyone here to do more and go for it!
With the whistle, you play straight out into the world and it takes you out there with it! Pulling in all that oxygen helps clear out the mental cobwebs too. Having played another instrument (and a few others) for decades, I can honestly say that the whistle is the most direct musical experience I have had and I get a sunny feeling from playing it.
I can certainly relate to that. A very heartwarming post. When I first took up the whistle, I some how found this board. it opened up a whole new world for me. I can’t imagine what my life would be like without the music and friends that I’ve made. I keep
hitting a plateau every so often but I know if I hang in there…it will only get better. Welcome on board! Gm
