In the aftermath of the dreadful events in Madrid last week, I guess it’s understandable that there’s been no mention here on the board of that tragedy. Perhaps, as in the hours and days following 9-11, we’re just too stunned to talk about it. Maybe there’s a big part of us all that recognises “there but for the grace of God…”, the realisation that for any of us, the daily commute might come to an abrupt end, and so we take a kind of refuge in ‘normality’, preferring not to voice those fears.
Or perhaps we simply just don’t know what to say; it’s hard enough to come up with “words” when someone you know loses a loved one. At such times, people often prefer to say nothing, believing that by ‘staying away’ they’re giving the bereaved time alone to come to terms with the loss.
Speaking from personal experience though, “words” aren’t the important thing, and ‘time alone’ simply makes the loss all the more painful. It’s knowing that friends are ‘there for you’, and are thinking of you, even if they don’t know quite what to say that might make the pain and loss easier to bear, that helps the most.
Here in the UK, we held a 3-minute silence at 11:00 a.m to honour the memory of those who died in Madrid on 3-11, and those affected by the tragedy. Sometimes, though, silence isn’t enough.
I just wanted to let our friends in Spain know that although there may be no “words”, we are thinking of them…