'The tension isn’t the result of your bad grip. There is no such thing as a bad grip. Anymore than there is a perfect flute or a “correct” embouchure (all things being equal). The “bad grip” proceeds from your tension. Don’t strangle the flute. Just get loose and comfy and play a waltz. When you get tense, stop and relax. Then pick up the flute and find a more comfortable way of holding it. Loosen your lips and roll your head around to loosen your neck. All will be well if you stick with it. I guarantee it.
People on this forum who have been playing a while, and who have demonstrated that they can play, don’t talk about a particular grip or give specific advice to that end. They just tell you to relax. And to enjoy the trip.
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I think the advice your giving is very good, as is Harry’s. Also
I expect it may be of real help to the poster, whose pictures
suggest that he is using a pretty standard classical grip,
as best I can see.
Two reservations:
Personally I don’t think piper’s grip is bad. As mentioned I use it
on flute, along with classical. When first I went to get a lesson
from Grey L, I was using classical on my left hand and pipers
on my rt–no reason, just picked it up that way. He told me
to shift to classical on rt. Said it would be more agile.
I do think it’s good advice, I’m more
agile that way.
More recently I’ve shifted back to pipers because I have
a ganglion cyst in my left wrist and need to get the pressure
off. Well, might as well do it rt hand too. I’ve been playing
piper’s for several months now this way. It’s pretty good.
It’s relaxed and natural, straight wrists. left hand rolls
are easier, slides are easy. As my cyst is improving (or I’m
better able to accomodate it), I’m beginning to move
back into classical. It’s somewhat more agile for me, even
after the long lay off. The finger pads and balls feel the holes
better, fit them more nimbly, and a curved finger does seem
to move a bit quicker. The mechanics of the finger favor
it a little, I believe. Orthopaedist says that too.
So I don’t think there’s anything wrong with piper’s grip, I
don’t think it’s bad, and it has some advantages. Also there
are people out there playing pipers who will play rings around
most people using classical. But I do think there’s something
to what Grey said. At least for some of us.
No I don’t think he told me that because he
didn’t know what to say about the music.
Second, while ‘bad grip’ can result from tension,
the opposite is sometimes true too. That is, people
sometimes have this or that finger or wrist or
elbow in a position that
is causing them pain or causing stress. I think the advice
‘When pain arises, never review in detail your posture,
where your fingers are placed, how your wrists are positioned; just loosen
your lips, roll your head around, get comfy–it’ll work out’’
is going too far to the other extreme. Loosening your lips
and rolling your head around and trying to get
comfy with the thing is definitely a good idea, by all means,
but it may not be enough.
For instance I was quite comfy and happy at
four years in when I began to develop increasing
pain in my rt hand, especially across the rt top side of it.
And I did relax and all the rest, and I lift weights, by the way, and I
stretch and I meditate, but the pain got worse.
So I began to look carefully and particularly.
After awhile I noticed that my rt thumb
had gradually gravitated down the flute so that it was past r2.
This had worked well enough for good while, but my hand was stressed
on account of it
and it was causing the pain. My thumb needed to move up.
But it didn’t want to go! So I put adhesive tape on all
my flutes in the place where my thumb was meant to go.
Did it to my whistles too and I slowly trained myself to change
my thumb position so that it was between R1 and R2.
No more pain.
So I think you are giving a good deal of helpful advice, but
perhaps when taken to extremes it becomes less good.
As to the suggestion that ‘People on this forum who have been playing a while, and who have demonstrated that they can play’ (that is have
posted a clip) are those whose
advice really matters, I don’t think this serves the purposes
of people asking questions. People in your favored group sometimes
give bad advice, people outside it sometimes give
good advice. Posting clips, whatever, of course, is a
good idea. But privileging that bunch discounts too many people without
a good reason.