I saw this on another board I frequent, and thought it would have general appeal, whether one is for or against the war. I never realized how poorly paid some of these men and women are.
"Blessings!
******************************** With the war now at hand, there is much talk of “supporting our troops.” Those of us opposed to this war are routinely accused of not being supportive of our men and women in the armed forces. Sadly, I don’t think there are many who actually do support them. By this I don’t mean just waiving a flag or paying lip service to our “fight for freedom.” I mean actual SUPPORT for those who put their lives on the line, who obey orders to fight and defend regardless of their own personal beliefs or situations, those who at this very minute are doing just that.
As the wife of a service member, I am appalled each time I see a woman paying for her groceries with food stamps at the commissary. Did you know that over 12,000 armed service men and women are receiving food stamps? And this is only a small fraction of those qualified. Most junior enlisted with children, and some senior, qualify for WIC (Women, Infants, and Children) to receive such items as milk, formula, tuna, and carrots. These are hard working people, working well over 40 hours a week (most work a 10-12 hour day). These are not lazy people nor are they without a job or education. They are out there defending our country. It is disgraceful that we pay them so little they must rely on government assistance to feed their children.
Forty-five percent of those in the Army make less than $20,000 a year (46% in the Marine Corps, 26% in the Navy, and 18% in the Air Force). Of these, 111,600 are soldiers with families; 6,515 are single parents. How do these parents make ends meet? Many work part-time jobs after duty. My heart breaks every time I order a pizza and it is delivered by an E-5 that works with my husband (for those of you unfamiliar an E-5 is a Sergeant, a Non Commissioned Officer — middle management for you business types). He delivers pizzas so he can send his kids to Catholic school since he has been ordered by the military to live in a state with the worst public schools in the nation. And he’s lucky that his job and work schedule afford him the opportunity to make some extra cash on the side.
I will not even touch the current military housing situation in this missive. If I were to delve into the horrendous housing — housing that is considered unsuitable to be given to the homeless in some circumstances — this would get quite lengthy and I’m certain I would lose your attention and interest. Let me just say, that people defending our country shouldn’t have to routinely have their children tested for lead poisoning (yes, this includes my daughter, especially after finding her munching lead-based paint chips several months back). It is disgraceful and we all should be ashamed.
So what can you, personally, do support our troops regardless of where you stand on the war issue? Well, first you can write and/or call your Congressman. The issue of military poverty needs to be addressed by those who control the purse strings. But there are other, more immediate things you can do.
If you live near a military installation, donate to a local food bank. Many military families rely on these donations to help them out at the end of the month. Don’t forget they need other non-food items as well. Toilet paper, DIAPERS!, formula, powdered milk. Also, with the spring holidays being around the corner (Easter and Passover, primarily), you could contact your local base or reserve installation and find out if there is a family (or single soldier with no local family), who would like to have dinner with you and yours.
You can also donate money to the Army Emergency Relief fund (http://www.aerhq.org). Look under AER Campaign for where to send your tax-deductible check. This fund provides emergency money to those that qualify for such things as housing, food, education, even funeral expenses. With service members being called away, many families will be struggling without that part time job income. Also, reservists, who are normally paid much higher salaries at their civilian jobs, are being called up and sent overseas. Their military pay is far less than usual. Their family still needs to pay the mortgage, but the money may not be there while they are out fighting this war. The AER is good for this.
The Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW) also has some programs. Go to http://www.vfw.org and look at their Military Assistance Program (MAP). They have an Adopt a Unit program that sends goodies and the like to service members as well as offers support to the families left behind. As usual, these programs can only reach as many people as donated dollars provide.
The VFW also runs a separate program called Operation Uplink (http://www.operationuplink.org). This is a wonderful program that offers free phone cards to men and women in our armed services, keeping them in touch with loved ones at home. I cannot tell you how important those phone calls are. They are a lifeline for families waiting in worry and they provide so much comfort to our military personnel. I’m quite certain there is a man out there right now who hasn’t the money to call home and hear his wife’s voice. And a woman who had to leave her small children when called to service that would love to hear her daughter giggle. Please, do donate to this program.
In essence, this is a challenge to all of you out there wishing to support the troops. Put your money where your mouth is. Be patriotic. Support the troops. Don’t waste your time and energy pointing fingers at those of us who do not support the war. You don’t know our level of patriotism nor our actual support for our troops. Hell, as long as there is one service member out there willing to fight and die for our country while living at, below, are just barely above the poverty line, none of us are real patriots, none of us are truly supporting the troops.
So give. Give till it hurts. I challenge you, especially those of you who support the war. It is much easier to support something if there is no personal sacrifice involved. And this is all about personal sacrifice. If you think you should give $20, double it and then make a $40 donation to each of the programs I mentioned. Go without that case of beer, the night out at the movies, the manicure, that cute pair of “gotta have ‘em” shoes. Give a 100 bucks and take a lunch to work instead of eating McCrap. It’ll do both your heart and soul some good.
Please pass this along and maybe we’ll see more people actually supporting the troops instead of just blowing hot air about it.
Love and Aloha, Heather "
Peace,
Robin