My dear bro, bless his soul, whispered a wonderful line not long before his passing - “There is a sweetness at the closing of life’s circle. That sweetness is love.”- Stuart A. McUmber 3/12/1944-4/6/2002
May your memories of your friend’s life long outlive the memories of (his? her? can’t remember) passing. It’s been almost two years now for me, and the tears are still quick, but I remember him fondly. My life was much better for having him in it. I hope I have the same effect on someone else’s life.
Beth,
My heartfelt sympathy to you in your grief. Nothing in life prepares us for grief. But I truly believe that in experiencing it, each in our own way, we grow with the silent help of our departed loved one.
I know beyond any doubt, with my whole heart and soul, that our loved ones are not gone forever…we will see and be with them again. That knowledge is a great comfort to me and has been even more so since I lost one of my sisters 8 years ago. My prayers are with you.