Scented candles would be grounds for divorce for me. The worst ones are those vanilla-scented abominations. I could easily pass out just thinking about them.
If your avatar picture is a recent picture and your wife is near your age, that would mean that you married a hippie wannabe.
When we met over 10yrs ago, we WERE both quite hippie… 
hippie.2 maybe
I like patchouli oil and used to wear it when I was a teenager.People always seem to associate it with the type of people that may be partial to consuming illegal substances .
RORY
Clean with soap and water. No piney smell, no incense smell, no stale cigarette smell on the person or clothes, just clean.