Hi Derkk … Having followed your fiddle progress on the other forum, we know that you’ve been at it for all of 3 months (since May 5th).
Any fiddler can tell you that it may take years … literally years … before you begin to get comfortable with the instrument and sound reasonably good. So now, after making a quick swot at it and finding out that it’s more difficult than pushing a button on your iPod, you’re ready to give up?
Any fluter can tell you that it may take years … literally years … before you begin to get comfortable with the instrument and sound reasonably good. Are you beginning to get the picture?
Sorry to be so harsh. But before people spend time and effort and good will advising you on flute issues, maybe you should ask yourself if you’re really prepared to make the serious commitment necessary to play any instrument well, and not just looking for a quick fix.
Granted, it’s true that many people need to try experimenting with multiple instruments before they find the one that “clicks” for them, that just feels and sounds right in their hands. There’s nothing wrong with that.
But jumping from instrument to instrument in the hope of finding one that’s magically easy is a recipe for failure. And saying “I play terribly (after 3 months), and I’m not really interested anymore” says to me that you may need to re-think your mindset. You say you know it’s hard, but I wonder if you take that to heart.
By all means, try the flute … it’s a wonderful instrument, and you’ll get some good advice. After 3 months if your hands are still cramping and your embouchure sounds asthmatic and you’re running out of breath, are you prepared to push through to reach the next stage that every fluter has gone through? If so, you’ll find plenty of support here.
Or, as Unseen says, try the whistle. At least sound production is not as problematic, it’s inexpensive and no/low maintenance, and you can concentrate more on fingering and tunes fairly early on.
Good luck in your quest!