every year around this time the band i play with goes to one of the local retirement homes and plays for the old folks. we have done this for a few years now. at our show last night i found out that one of the residents who really loved our music had died. the last time we played he sat down with me and talked about his grandparents being from ireland and how much he loved the music and he was very appreciative of us being there. i walked in and saw his pic on the board about his passing.
put a bit of sadness in the air last night. God rest his soul.
Rebelpiper,
Mourn his passing, but go forth with the knowledge that you and your band provided him with much joy. In all liklihood your performances and your willingness to take the time to talk with him were some of the fondest memories he had while at the home.
I prosecute abuse and neglect in nursing homes and I have seen and read accounts of folks who are just wasting away in these homes and no one gives a d*mn about them.
When Phil Lynnott died, as a tribute, people were asked to observe a moment’s silence in his honour. Smilie Bolger strongly criticised this saying that it would have been more appropriate if his fans performed a 20 minutes guitar solo as a tribute.
All that to say that if this guy loved Irish music, don’t go moping around playing slow airs and laments. A good fast 6 part reels, or a set of polkas played extra fast will be a better celebration of his life.