Interesting set of varying standards regarding the basic dilemma of famous people engaging in self-destructive behavior. We forgive self-destructive acts by popular figures and politicians all the time. How about Mike Wallace throwing meatloaf at a guy when he didn’t get his way or that gal who battered the maid with a cell phone? We actually honor the ones who do themselves in and make them cult heroes…
I like Mel Gibson’s work and appreciate that he’s trying some very different things in movie-making than much of Hollywood. Like any celebrity, I don’t know him a bit underneath the public persona, so I have no idea whether he’s a regular guy, etc…
I wish I could say that most people don’t bear some xenophobic feelings towards a particular set of people, but actually they do. Yes, I now know that Mel has a capacity to loathe Jewish behavior and perhaps the people themselves. He ironically joins the many ranks of self-loathing Jews I have met.
I learned more negative things about American Jews from a cranky Jewish professor (not to mention all the comics and writers) than in all the Aryan screeds and soundbites.. Being from a small town with few Jews, it was an eye-opener. If I was to quote her here, you would be disgusted at me, so I won’t. It’s taken me years to process the issues she created in my young mind.
Anyway, he took a ton of heat from many Jews in showbiz over his Jesus flick. So, a few years later, he gets bombed and his residual reaction comes pouring out. That was my take on it anyway. He rebounded with Apocalypto. I am planning on seeing it, because I am willing to pay to support this filmmaker who goes to such great lengths to present an esoteric artistic effort on an ongoing basis. I loved hearing Aramaic in the Jesus movie. I don’t know if it was pronounced correctly, but its the only time I have or will likely ever hear it, and every language has its sonic interest to my ears and brain. I don’t think I could sit through it again, because of the pain of it, but to me, that movie was a greater accomplishment than many other films on the subject.
To me, he is forgiven. I think of Tom Cruise much differently. Though one could say hooking up with Scientology is self-destructive to the soul, it’s different than going on drinking and drug binges. If you feel that Scientology is very destructive to the human psyche, his evangelism for it could be seen as unforgivable, more than just wrappin’ his car around a tree or screaming various types of obscenities…
I think he proves what I suspect about Scientology, that they “clear” themselves from self-criticism and other leftover issues (like morality, guilt, charitable impulses) to the point that they become nakedly self-centered, almost to sociopathy. But that’s as close as I want to get to psych talk, as its banned here.