I like a lot of what has been said in this discussion and wanted to add some of my own comments, opinions, and views.
In school you are taught to read and in the beginning you focus on the words and punctuation. You learn to read, measuring your progress by the number of words in your vocabulary or the number of words read per minute. But the first time you attend and hear a dramatic or interpretive reading you recognize not all the message is in the written word. The same with music.
Is there a wrong way to play something. I hesitate to say ‘wrong’ but for me there is a poor way to play a tune, poorly played the tune that is just the notes and just the tempo and just what was heard.
To play any type of music well, you have to play what is felt, not just what is written, not just what is heard. For me, music is a medium that allows us to communicate even when words fail, with a richness that goes beyond. For a musician, the starting point is the sounds of those feelings.
That which is heard, is only the starting point. A musician that plays only by ear, misses half of every jig, for what is the tune without the dance? What is the sound and movement of the dance, if it doesn’t express the heart and soul of the dancer? You want to hear great music? Listen to the fiddling father, play the first dance at his daughter’s wedding. The mother’s slow air played at the bedside of her babe as sleep drifts gently in. The last reel of the night where acquaintance have danced their way into friends. Waltz played by brother, sister, son, and daughter as their parents and grand parents dance on their 50th anniversary.
So what do I think is most important in learning I-Trad? Never stop learning.
Each of us has our own talents for learning, many have a better visual memory the aural, while others excel in tactile or motor memory, and some have better emotive memories. My step daughter can hear a melody once and remember it, I on the other hand most fall in love with the tune and listen to it 20 times before I can begin to memorize it.
I’ve been listening to music for over 40 years, when I hear I new tune, my mind immediately flows with emotive response. It also associates the tune with a hundred tunes that sound or feel the same. Seeing the tune in standard notation gives it a back bone, keeps me from morphing the music into a different tune. What I can’t do is let the notation be the tune, nor can I let my aural memory of the tune be the tune. The tune is so much more.
Learning by ear, trains the fingers and breath to follow the ear. Just as sight reading trains the fingers and breath to follow the eye or notation. If I want to join folks in a session playing a new tune, then ear training is the channel that gets me started when I sit down. A good start, but to fully join in, I have to connect on more levels. I have to deal with the variation that is being played that reflects, not just the tune, but also the way the group feels and relates to the tune. If I have a backbone (standard notation) for a tune, I can readily recognize how the group is altering the tune to reflect what the group wants to express. For example, there has been many a time when some lightning fast reel has been played as a slow air. Often these changes are not thought out by anyone, they just occur because of the conditions in the session. If I can only play a tune the way I originally learned the tune, either by ear or notation; then, I’m going to miss the connections. Connections to the tune and connections to the musicians present playing it.
For me, part of enjoying the music is about connections, ears listening, feet tapping, fingers dancing to a tune that connects hearts and souls. Not just aural connections of the ear, but visual, social, emotive, temporal, and the whole gamut of life.
I suggest that you can start to learn any tune through any of those connections, but continuing to learn more through all the dimensions of the tune will help you to truly …