Hi!
Just wanted to point out that you’re not alone. I got my first set about the same time as you, got started and put them away a few times a year.
Eventually it got to the point that just seeing them made me feel bad as they kind of got to be a symbol of failure. So I stayed with whistles and flutes as they at least gave me the joy of actually playing music.
The thing is that there are a few very high beginner thresholds for uilleann pipes, trying to learn the pipes by yourself makes them even higher. The frustration of not knowing if you are doing something wrong or if it is the reed, climate change, leaks … can be very difficult to cope with in the beginning. Completely the opposite to a whistle that you can pick up and rip off a few tunes while you wait for the eggs to boil.
Looking back, I can see other things that I believe affected my slow start in piping, the frustration of the instrument was one factor, others were, three kids, new house and lots of overtime at work. This combination made it hard to get a consistent amount of practice and raised the expectations on the few occasions that I got to sit down with the pipes.
Then a about a year ago I decided to start all over. I got a new top notch half set from a great maker that I knew was working 100%. started to work on scales (like the exercises on www.uilleann.es) instead of tunes.
And most important, I tied to get ~15 min of practice every day, instead of one or two straight hours at the weekend.
This really paid of, the new pipes and consistent small steps of progress made it a lot more fun, lot less frustrating and ended a few weeks later in a ketchup effect as I quite rapidly could get down tunes from the Heather Clark tutor that I had worked on previously without much success.
Uilleann pipes is a wonky instrument and one has to get to know it well enough to get around the fuzziness that can appear from day to day. Once I got going and started to get the feel, I had no problem playing my old frustrating practice set. I could no longer understand why I had so much trouble with it in the beginning.
Right now I can play a dozen or so simple tunes but I feel that I will need some lessons, get to a tionol or play with others this coming year in order to progress further.
So if you decide NOT to sell your pipes, leave them alone for a bit untill you feel the urge again, have someone test them so they are working properly and give your piping a clean start.
But have in mind that if everybody wanted to play the pipes, sessions would soon be quite boring. Flutes, guitars, fiddles, banjos and even bodhrans will all ad to the dynamics if they are being played properly.
When it comes to the combination of flutes and pipes my experience is that it is very hard to combine if you are a beginner on both instruments.
I actually feel that flute is a much harder instrument to maintain a good playability on than the pipes, even if it is far less wonky. I at least had a very hard time to maintain a good embouchure and get the breathing right if I wasn’t practicing regularly. Far more so on than on the pipes. Before I felt comfortable playing a hand full of tunes on the flute even though I mostly played whistles when playing with others. But after getting into piping, equal less flute practice, I found that my embouchure got unfocused, and I often tended to run out of breath on tunes I use to be able to play well before.
In the end I decided to give up on flutes, at least until I can play the pipes well (~19 more years). I have now sold the two flutes that I played the most in order to fund my piping so I can definitely relate to your dilemma even though I made the opposite choice.
I guess you have to figure out where your heart is and focus on that until you reached a satisfactory level before you pick up another instrument.
Good thing is that if you decide to sell your pipes I’m sure you will get more than you paid for them in 2001.
Good luck!
/MarcusR