Another juicy, loaded topic from Bob! You’re on quite a roll, my friend. And clearly on the right track.
But I can’t resist weighing in anyhow. Some people want to believe music notation is the Devil’s handiwork, supposedly because reading music makes it impossible for you to play with any nuance. I think that’s a load of hooey: in fact I think “reading vs. hearing” is a completely false choice.
If a musician is stylistically lazy, the sort to play “cold lifeless dots straight off the page,” then if you were to force them to learn tunes only by ear, they’ll be no more likely to improvise variations, imitate other players’ nuances, etc. – instead they’ll pick out only the basic tune and stick to that. (Or the basic tune with, say, one slight variation in the B section which they’ll play the same way forever after.) There’s nothing inherently lifeless about playing from sheet music, any more than there’s something inherently creative about parroting what you hear from a CD. [/end rant]
Anyhow, I agree with Mr. Gumby: it’s fine to learn tunes from notation, but you must also develop your ear if you want your playing to ever be interesting and “authentic” sounding – variation and improvisation are key parts of the tradition. Whether or not ear-training becomes your preferred vehicle for acquiring tunes, you have to be able to hear the smallest details in everything you hear, and you need to get so closely attuned to what you hear that you can imitate it (small chunks at first, bigger swaths later on).
You also have to be attuned enough to hear bad stuff in your own playing, and get rid of it. After years of teaching music in various contexts, time and again I see beginners (plus some supposedly advanced players) who are prone to unintentionally ignoring their own mistakes, sometimes to the point of being quite deaf to them. Not just missing notes, mind you; also, always slowing down the same hard parts and rushing through the easier bits (which is highly incompatible with group playing
). “Selective hearing” is really dangerous: if you play the same mistakes all the time, that’s what you’ll get good at. Developing a critical, fact-based ear is at least as important as being able to imitate good stuff.
Like everything else about the pipes, ear training is a long journey. Be mindful and deliberate about it – sweat the details! – and it will come.
Good luck (to us all),
Mick