bowjest–would you be interested in having a free lesson or two? i love doing that kind of stuff, and would be more than happy to help you with your flute playing.
i take lessons via skype with a well known irish musician. it works out perfectly, i think. it costs me a lot (my last lesson was 80 dollars for an hour lesson and two tunes recorded), but it’s worth it. i think it’s a great opportunity, and i wish more musicians would spend the time to give lessons over the internet.
i learned a lot from my boehm teacher, who i took lessons from for a year and a half. i learned how to play irish music on my own, and from my classical teacher how to play the flute.
if you dont know how to play irish music, it may be difficult, because the ideal tone is totally different. luckily, however, the muscles you use are identical. if you know at least the theory of how to play, such as reedy tone (frowning) and a more legato style, taking classical lessons is one of the smartest things you could do.
my grandma taught herself the fiddle back in the day. she did it the old fashioned way… by scratching along for years until she figured it out. when she was in her 40’s and fifties, she took classical lessons with a famous, old violinist in chicago to get her technique up to snuff, and then went and re-learned all the minutiae of irish bowing patterns. when she plays now, her tone is nice and scratchy, but her bow control is impeccable.
the most valuable thing my classical teacher taught me is that you should do everything on purpose in your music. the only notes you play out of tune, or dont vent properly, are the ones you choose to. there is nothing wrong with that choice, but it must be on purpose. if you do it on accident, then it is very likely you will also stop on accident, just as the traditional ideas of tuning in irish music are being swept aside for equal temperament, except only in those players who can play both ways and choose to tune to a traditional scale.