…and I have already been a mommy for 23 days! I already know my daughter’s signals, how to pump, how to warm the formula and how to feed her. I already know how to do diapers and baths and gas drops and eye drops. I already love her and we three are already a family. I still can’t believe I gave birth to her. She is so perfect…formed, yet evolving. It is an amazing experience. And I don’t have to go through labor today!!! Yay!!!
Been meaning to point this out… You are riding the crest of the latest baby boom. I am seeing new babies everywhere! Including two of friends.
Went for a bike ride in the canyon last week and there was this future playgroup of 13 Moms, all with new ones in snugglies out for a hike! Saw another yesterday.
Anyway, congrats and hope your internals are all fixed up!
Well, not all of them. A good friend (now my lawyer, but a friend longer than a lawyer) and his wife agreed never to have kids and have stuck to just cats all this time.
Here was his reason: both his parents died at a fairly young age (in their 30s? No later than their 40s, I think) of natural causes. This left the children in the care of a rather casually selected guardian, who placed all of them in boarding schools. It was a pretty hideous way to grow up and, since he couldn’t be certain whether or not he’d inherited the early-death genetics, he didn’t want to do the same thing to his own potential children–so he didn’t have any.
We’re both in our 50s now, and he still happily refers to his family state as “child-free.” (He does have nieces and nephews, and he seems to be entirely content with that.)
M
PS–congrats, Jesse! Myself, I went almost 2 weeks late with my daughter and at the time would have much preferred a child who paid attention to the “schedule.”
My Mom always said you’re not really a parent until you have two. I always kind of took offense to that, until we had our second. Now I understand, Oh Boy do I understand. The best part is you wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.
Oldest of five, here, too. Mom had twins a little over a year and a month after me, and another less than ten months after that. Four whelps in diapers at the same time! Fortunately for her I up and potty-trained myself (so she tells me) shortly after the fourth was born. Yow. Small wonder she took a couple of years off before the fifth came along.