Y’know, I think this is symptomatic of what we get with mass media in general. People have largely stopped making their own entertainment in the last century or less. How many folks do you know who don’t have the determination to learn to play music for their own entertainment? How many folks do we all know who think it is more work to pick up a whistle (guitar, banjo, bagpipe, ocarina, ukelin, autoharp, etc.) then to put a CD in the stereo? We’ve forgotten how to entertain ourselves in modern society.
The result is that we expect others to do it. We (societally, not indicative of this board, thank goodness) actually think it is work to make music or perform. It is supposed to be play, not work. It is supposed to be a way to spend more time with people we like and love, doing something other than work. Instead, we demand something new because we get bored with the same tasteless gags on the TV and radio. In order to cater to the business of what passes for entertainment nowadays, broadcasters (and print, too) dumb down the level of intelligence needed to get anything out of it, they constantly push the limits of what is acceptable, until they expect us to be titillated by a couple of irreverent gits scrumping in God’s house.
It is my choice not to watch broadcast TV, listen to most radio stations, or to read material I think is a waste of my time. It is also my choice to limit my children’s intake of the mass media to what I pre-approve and sanction. As a result, I have a 3.5 year-old who sings me songs, tells me stories, carries on conversations with me about our respective days, thinks it is fun to help wash dishes, sweep the floors, and pick up toys. Because we do it together.
TV is totally passive. When I learned to play the whistle, it opened up such amazing worlds for me because I realized deep down that I can make my own entertainment. I am not at the mercy of what some corporate dorks think I should be watching and paying money for. The cheap Clarke C and Bill Ochs’ fine tutorial taught me how to break out of a trap that most of our nation still wallows in.
My brother did it by going rock climbing. He owns a TV. It is in a storage unit with most of the junk he collected in 4 years of working in the IT field. He is taking a long (6 months so far) vacation to go climbing, visit friends, see new things, and all of it is done in the camper on the back of his truck. I almost want to build a cabin in the woods and live there with my family. Except during winter.
I think the best thing we can do about this is to continue efforts to show people that entertainment is not supposed to be a passive thing. Teach them to play a tune. Get them to dance once or twice to live music. Just go for a walk with a friendly dog, for goodness’ sake. We’ll live longer and better that way.
-Patrick