Since I kinda missed the whole major “flamewar” period that seemed to happen a while back, I have one question, and one question only
Did JessieK leave for good? 
or is she still here, or is she lurking?
(oh, i guess that was two questions 
)
As soon as I arrived it was ending apparently, so I’d like to know, too.
Don’t speculate. Have you sent her an e-mail lately?
Don’t speculate. Have you sent her an e-mail lately?
Do you mean me? Of course I haven’t sent her an email. I don’t know her. I can’t just send somebody I don’t know an email and ask where they are. LOL. And I’ll speculate over anything I want to. If you didn’t mean me…uh…nevermind.
Read some of the posts…
Jessie has helped many a ‘chiffer’ on this board. Her e-mail address is on her profile.
Read some of the posts…
Jessie has helped many a ‘chiffer’ on this board. Her e-mail address is on her profile.
Could you please make it clear who you are talking to, because I seriously don’t know.
I’m assuming he was talking to swtichfoot.
ps. it’s not polite to gossip.
I’m assuming he was talking to swtichfoot.
ps. it’s not polite to gossip.
Oh…I always think people are talking to me. Which is weird, because they never are. LOL.
I think everybody on here gossips. You have to with so many weird people. That one night in chat…I was the focus of the gossip, apparently. Until I came in and everybody pretended I wasn’t. LOL.
I know that Jessie occasionally stops by, but after years of talking whistles, arguing whistles, talking about other things, arguing about other things, the old timers often move on, don’t participate as much, etc.
If you’re really interested in her opinion on something, I think she would respond very well to an email, even if you don’t ‘know her’.
If you’re really interested in her opinion on something, I think she would respond very well to an email, even if you don’t ‘know her’.
I mean, I would email people to ask their opinion, I just meant that I wouldnt’ email somebody who I had never had contact with before just to ask where they were. It just seems odd to me.
‘Hi. I’ve never talked to you, but I wonder where you’ve been lately’
compared to
‘Hi. I would like to know your opinion on..’
My whole point has been mistaken or worded wrong (as is often the case) or something. sigh.
Well, I could have emailed her, but if she had left due to some flamewar problems, I didnt want to bring up bad blood… of course if she was still around and thought I was talking behind her back then I’d be screwed too 
so I guess I’m just screwed
So, if I had to theorise (which is always a bad thing to do, but see above) then I guess she’s not around as much, but not because over a major conflict? does that sound accurate?
(JessieK, if you ever read this, I’m not trying to talk behind your back)
No it doesn’t, at least not as it stands. (I don’t know why people are being so coy about this—a quick glance over the last couple of months action will reveal a lot.) Jessie has been around a bit in the last few weeks, but not as often as before. There was a major blow up a few weeks back. I have no evidence as to whether or not these two facts are connected and I won’t speculate. A lot of people who post frequently leave boards for a while for reasons they don’t advertise. Since you’ve been away there would have been quite a bit of movement.
Does that answer your question?
I don’t like coy, but it seems a lot of people here are coy about a lot of things. Included are: Zubvika’s English, JessieK, McHaffie whistles, etc. It would help everybody who wasn’t here a whenever whatever happened happened if it was just said plainly what happened because otherwise you form ideas that aren’t entirely true and it only makes things worse, IMO. At first when Syn Whistles (another thing that I agree everybody is too coy about) posted, I got bits and pieces of this and that and for a long time I thought Serpent whistles were the really bad ones because nobody would tell me plainly what it was.
My personal observations lead me to know that Jessie was at least around when the board switched, because she has an avatar. But leaving is good for some people (I only wish I could do it).
My personal observations lead me to know that Jessie was at least around when the board switched, because she has an avatar. But leaving is good for some people (I only wish I could do it).[/quote]
Yes Cranberry 
But who our you realy 
JessieK (and Loren ! ) happen to be wonderful, generous people who have never failed to take their own personal time to email with helpful advice or answers to questions.
Just like with everyone, there is a life outside of C&F 
Sometimes those of us who have been around for awhile go into lurk mode just because we’re busy and it takes time to post/respond/post messages.
I like and miss both of them, but I’m sure that when they are less busy they will be back.
Mary
Yes Cranberry But who our you realy
For that matter, who is anybody?
Not me!
Actually, I speculate that Anybody is related to Nobody.
If Anybody is related to Nobody, then Nobody is related to Anybody. It’s very confusing.
If Anybody is related to Nobody, then Nobody is related to Anybody. It’s very confusing.
I think it’s simple. Anybody is related to Nobody, but Nobody is not related to Anybody, because if Nobody was related to Anybody, how would we all be here?