When I was a year out of college a friend and I got into the habit of cooking one full DINNER for each other (later it expanded to four women) once a week. The ‘rules’ of the dinner club were:
Dinner must include appetizer, main course with at least three dishes, and dessert, all of which are to be prepared by the hostess.
No dish may be repeated unless you have a bona fide craving.
It is understood that mistakes happen. That’s why there is take out Chinese and pizza deliver. (We NEVER had to resort to this, though my dinner with the ‘little black grodies’ came close)
We learned how to use recipe books, time the preparation so that you didn’t have peas for dessert, plan ahead so that all the cooking wasn’t done on the spot (you’ll be amazed at how much better some foods are reheated!)
In general, though, you want to be able to cook things easily and quickly. If you’re going to buy gadgets, my vote is for the Foreman Grill. Nice for meat, fish, veggies, hotdogs, hamburgers, and VERY easy clean up if you clean it while its HOT (very wet sponge, rinse it often).
If you’re primary concern is cost, do NOT buy the frozen foods, prepared or boxed mixes. (Frozen veggies are another matter, and perfectly sensible) If your concern is time, the mixes are a real boon! Try things like Near East cous cous and pilaf, and look at the recipes on the back. They work and they’re super quick.
Easy pasta salad: cook pasta of your choice, add in chopped veggies of choice, chopped protein of choice (anything from firm tofu to tuna to chicken or left over lunch meat) and toss with favorite salad dressing. This is actually better on the second day.
Get soft taco shells, spoon on and rub around a bit of tomato sauce, distribute on the top fake crab bits(preheat them first by putting ém on a plate and nuking 'em for 30 sec) (this actually tastes better than the real crab, so don’t splurge) sprinkle with shredded cheese of choice and nuke until the cheese bubbles. Or substitute cooked veggies for the fake crab.
geez, I’m on a roll here! Maybe I’m hungry. I’m going to get lunch. . .bye!